How To Interact With Lost Loved Ones Through Lucid Dreaming

The pain of loss is something that many of us do not wish to go through, but inevitably do, at some point in our lives. Whether it is a parent, a sibling, a friend, or a pet, it will happen. There can be many things that have been left unsaid or undone and it is too late, for our loved ones are gone. But there is a way to interact with those we have lost, whether to relive past experiences, to talk and have closure, or simply to continue to feel their presence even after they have gone. And that is through lucid dreaming.

First of all however, before you proceed, know that anyone you will talk to through lucid dreaming is created by your own subconscious mind, and not actual visitations from the dead. Although this is quite possible through other means, through lucid dreaming, it is simply an introspective way of interacting with our lost loved ones.


How Is It Possible?

Remember, lucid dreaming allows the dreamer to control one’s dreams, summoning from within one’s subconscious memories of our lost loved ones and creating in the dreamscape experiences based on what we know, feel, and remember about them. Our subconscious will remember what they sounded like, how they acted, their exact actions from memories, how they look, how they feel, virtually everything.

It is from this subconscious bank that our lucid dreams can manifest into one wherein we can interact with our deceased loved ones.

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Is it a bad idea?

There will be people who may find the use of lucid dreams to speak to our passed on loved ones as unethical, fake, or even evil as it may be against a religious belief.  But the thing is, it will really depend on why you want to do it.

For example, if this is done to keep the memory of the loved one alive, or to remember all the good instead of just the bad, or to have some closure at the passing, then we see nothing wrong with using lucid dreaming in this way.

There are people who deal with loss in many different but similar ways, like looking at photo albums, watching old home movies, visiting places they frequented, and doing the things done by the deceased. Lucid dreaming experiences with them is no different.

So as long as the intent is pure, it shouldn’t be a bad idea.


How is it done?

It is important before you attempt this that you know how to perform lucid dreaming. We have numerous guides on the subject which you can find in the links below.  Once you have a good grasp of lucid dreaming, follow these steps.

1.)    Set your intent early in the day – as early as you wake up, set the intention of having a lucid dream experience with your lost loved one. Hold on to this intent for the rest of the day.

2.)    Pick a memory or a previous experience – to stimulate both your conscious and subconscious, recall a memory you want to draw from constantly during the day.

3.)    Prepare the room – once you’re ready, prepare the room for your lucid dreaming experience. Place items that will stimulate even more memories of the lost loved one, like photos, mementos, and so on.

4.)    Lay down and begin – sleep, and follow the steps to achieve lucidity, and start the lucid dream experience.

We advise that once the lucid dream starts, and the deceased loved one manifests, to not control the dream fully, but rather, simply experience it naturally and let the subconscious help. This can give new memories and experiences that may enrich the memory of your loved ones after you wake up.
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Using a complex pattern of binaural beat and isochronic tone frequencies dedicated to help you achieve good sleep and have lucid dreams, this 8-hour music track is divided into four unique sections. In the first 2 hours we've used frequencies that range from 3-13Hz (Alpha-Theta range) to help calm your mind and feel deeply relaxed. There is a pleasurable feeling of floating and it will give effects such as stress reduction, relaxed awareness, release of serotonin, and an induction to sleep spindles as your mind and body allows itself into sleep. It also contains triggers for creativity and imagery and access to subconscious images as you doze off.

The second and third sections contain more of the Theta waves, which are also present in dreaming, sleep, deep meditation and creative inspiration. As you have already fallen asleep, the binaural beats tap into your subconsciousness as your mind prepares itself into a lucid dream state. The music is more steady so as not to interrupt your sleep.

The fourth and last section returns itself to the Alpha range with a mix of Theta and Delta. This is where deep sleep occurs and more often than not, the dream state. There is a decreased awareness of the physical world. This section also contains the Earth Resonance or Schumann Resonance, which will leave you feeling revitalized upon waking up.

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Dream Fitness: How To Use Lucid Dreams For Weight Loss

Lucid dreaming is a powerful tool for the mind. It allows the dreamer to take control of what they dream about, and have amazing experiences as they sleep. But as we discussed before, lucid dreaming is so much more than that. Such a power can be used for many different things, and one of them is something that many people are struggling with these days: fitness and weight loss. Sounds unbelievable that lucid dreaming can help you lose weight and get fit? Let’s explore the idea further.

First thing’s first – the dreaming process itself is not the only component of this method. While lucid dreaming an intense dream (such as a triathlon) causes the heart and respiratory system to react, and therefore burn some calories, it won’t be as much as actually doing a triathlon in the waking world. So if that’s the case, “what’s the point?” you might ask? The point is, it’s all about conditioning.

Diet through dreaming

There is a saying: you can’t out exercise a bad diet. And most of the time, a bad diet is because of intense cravings that people have for certain kinds of foods or dishes, whether their body actually needs it or not. There are many causes of mental cravings for food, from stress due to work or school, to a coping mechanism for sadness or loss, or just simple desire for something delicious. We’ll explore this more in a future discussion. But either way, the effects are the same: when we eat excessively beyond what our body needs, it stores it as fat, and we pack on the pounds.

Lucid dreaming can help in this by allowing our mind, a big component in the food craving, to be satisfied, without having to affect the body. How? By lucid dreaming about eating!

Many studies have shown that dreamers have felt lesser and lesser food cravings while they are awake by lucid dreaming about eating the dishes they desire, often in excessive numbers. There are a number of ways this is done.

1. Eating until satisfied – The dreamer dreams about the foods they want to feast on, and enjoys it in a manner that will satisfy their mental food craving. Once this is reached, they stop.
2. Eating until sick – The dreamer dreams about the foods they want, and eats excessively, until they are either sick of the taste, or simply too full to continue.
3. Eating with consequence – The dreamer eats what they desire, but then also dreams about the consequences of such action, like suddenly seeing their legs and bellies grow, or feel difficulty in walking or moving.

Either way, once the dreamer is up and awake, the association carries over in real life, whether it’s through simply satisfied food cravings, or actually being sick and scared of overeating. And this helps in curbing waking world gluttony.

Exercise through dreaming

Exercising, or the prospect thereof, can really turn some people off from fitness. Whether it is because the movements are hard and need getting used to, or that exercise just takes up too much time, this is yet another obstacle in getting fit. But lucid dreaming can help in that too, same as the diet.

A lucid dreamer who wants to exercise can start, or continue, their journey in the dream. For example, the dreamer started doing running as a fitness routine. If in real life they can only manage a mile or two, whether due to low energy, unpracticed movements, or boring scenery, in the dream they can go indefinitely and run in a landscape that is just breathtaking. But the benefit goes beyond that. In the dream, the dreamer can practice their running stride, practice proper breathing, and most importantly, condition their mind to actually enjoy the run instead of think of it as a laborious endeavor. When they wake up, the feeling carries over!

This can be applied for any exercise routine or method that is causing fear or anxiety to the dreamer. Fear lifting heavy weights? Lucid dream about how easy it can be. Don’t like the idea of doing martial arts? Lucid dream about being trained by Bruce Lee! Once the mind is conditioned to not just tolerate, but actually enjoy exercising, the effects will ripple out in the waking world. And remember: the exercise in the dream also causes the body to react, so it also burns calories on its own!

Whether dieting or exercising via lucid dreaming, the effects can be enhanced even further by listening to a binaural beats track for exercise and getting fit, like this one: 

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